Be your own everything
I have been thinking a bit lately about authenticity, and how it relates to relationships. Last week, I went to hear Elizabeth Gilbert talk about her book Committed, which was just released in paperback. Now, I thought Eat Pray Love was a decent book, although it didn’t blow me away as much as some people, and the movie was a bit underwhelming. Still, I was intrigued by Committed, which was originally subtitled “A skeptic makes peace with marriage.”
You cant argue for the empowerment of women by encouraging them to aggressively assert themselves but ignore the reality that men feel entitled to politeness and that few things are more dangerous than a man who feels humiliated. Fix the latter and the former becomes unnecessary.